HDFS 1070 Lecture Notes - Lecture 13: Five Ws, Family Therapy, Individuation
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When you partner with someone, you commit your life time to them. Setting up next generation in your family systems. Sliding versus deciding? ideally and historically when we choose to marry someone we"re making our decision based on our attractiveness to our partner and our vision on the future into our partner deciding. Vision of my future, committed to you. Generating themes for the present and the future, themes become foundation of what goes on in your relationship going forward, planning for the future vs. living in the moment. Identity tasks (conjugal = term for husband and wife issues, related to the marriage relationship) External boundary tasks - about you as a couple and your extended families and your extended network of friends, set up in a way that result in you feeling that your partner"s primary loyalty is to you.