PSY 2110 Chapter Notes -Physical Intimacy, Narcissism, Agreeableness

Interdependent relationships w/ family and friends versus loneliness. Interdependence (two people who influence each other, share thoughts + emotions, do things together) characterize close relationships. Evolutionary theory suggests emotional bonding w/ others = higher chances at natural selection. Because of this, present-day humans/primates are hard-wired to seek emotional closeness. Attachment-styles (interpersonal trust + self-esteem) are attained through family/upbringing. Based on interaction between the caregiver and the child. Children learn what to expect/how to interact via interaction w/ family. Secure attachment-style: high self-esteem, high interpersonal trust. Fearful-avoidant attachment style: low self-esteem, low interpersonal trust. Preoccupied attachment style: low self-esteem, high interpersonal trust. A bit insecure, wants close relationships, but feels unworthy thus vulnerable to rejection. Dismissing attachment style: high self-esteem, low interpersonal trust. A bit insecure, feels like the deserve a close relationship, but frustrated due to mistrust of potential partners. Tendency to reject the other person to avoid being rejected.