CMN 1148 Lecture Notes - Lecture 8: John Bowlby, John Gottman, Attachment Theory
23 Mar 2017
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Chapter 8 | lecture 8 | building and maintaining relationships. According to a theory called fundamental interpersonal relations orientation (firo), we form interpersonal relationships to ll three primary needs: developed by will shultz. Inclusion (the need to be included and connected to others) Control (the need to in uence our relationships, decisions, and activities and to let others in uence us) Affection (the need to feel liked by others) Form because our lives overlap in some way (i. e. family, neighbours, coworkers, in-laws: relationships of choice. When we seek out and intentionally develop a relationship with someone (i. e. friends, lovers, mentors) Psychologist john bowlby developed attachment theory to explain the relationship between babies and primary caregivers. He found that the patterns of interactions we have with our earliest caregivers in uence how we see ourselves and how we interact with others throughout our life. Internal working models: mental pictures of the nature of relationships and what we can expect from them.
