Ex: with prof and 9 year old song + swing ride (understand the child to prevent a tantrum. Evolutionary, they needed to make a lot of attention to. Parenting as a mother and father is a relatively new invention. Best parenting: fearful (respectful) of parents + good attachment. Study with adolescent + parental lectures (10 males /10 females, they found that those with parental lectures on dangers of drunk driving and drugs every time they went out were better likely to use self-control) To make tempting events less attractive, have a good family ad good environment. Just say no to rugs: not very effective slogan. What is effective: looking to the future you. Piaget"s views: all humans are moral (but now we know that all humans are not moral) 5-7 y/o: will follow rules (realism: defined) ; by the time they are adults, can affect their development.