941: identify examples of you-language in this conversation. Bernadette used you-language several times in the conversation. Some examples of you- language in this conversation are: Your mess makes me really miserable : i- language- i feel miserable when you make a mess in the room . You make me nuts the way you just throw your stuff all over the room. : i- language- i feel insane when you throw your stuff all over the room. , identify examples of loaded language and ambiguous language. Bernadette uses loaded language when she called celia a "snob" at the end of the conversation. She also uses ambiguous language like, you"re so messy , you shouldn"t be so messy , and you and your mess that are my problem . I don"t agree with celia that the problem is only bernadette"s. Since they are sharing a room, they should be more mindful of each other problems.