CMN 120 Lecture Notes - Lecture 13: Annie Hall, Sparknotes, Old Times
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Lecture 13 - 3/15 - final review/annie hall film. Family systems: open = a system (compared to transactional model, we communicate to environment, environment communicates to us) Things will come to family, family will communicate to other entities (work, school, etc) both influence each other: ongoing = family story, past/present/future. Why more divorce now: higher expectations, 1974 = more marriages ending from divorce than death, gender roles, expectations,etc. What diff between acceptance and rejection for passive inclusion and ambivalence: passive = you care a bit they"re there, and include them, ambivalence = doesn"t care really if they there or not. People say i love you" before feeling i love you . Who has the right to share info or control it: dissimilar boundary orientations = we come from diff cultures or families; sharing may be common to one person but not the other; mistake can happen from diff predisposition.
