PSY BEH 173S Lecture Notes - Lecture 1: John Bowlby, Ambivalence, Roy Baumeister
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Quizzes are used to prepare you for the next midterm/final! Don"t need to do all 13, only do 7. Study for these exams as if it is closed book. Can earn up to 4 points; 1 point for 1 hour. Lecture 2 chapter 1: the building blocks of relationships. Topics to be covered: the nature of intimacy, the need to belong. Caring: more affection than for most others. Mutuality: us instead of me and him/her . Trust: expect to be treated fairly and honestly. You can believe what they"re saying is true. If they say they will do something or not, that they will do it/not. High degree of trust feels good and has a good effect on an individual. When you"re upset, you can count on your partner to understand you. They react to you appropriately and attentively. Invest the time, effort, and resources that are needed to realize that goal. It doesn"t matter much who are partners are.