SOC 152A Lecture Notes - Lecture 13: Internal Monologue, Foreplay, Orgasm
5/4/18
●Oral stimulation
○tongue= moist and not too strong
●c) vibrators: women can have 2-50 orgasms w/vibrators vs. 3-5 orgasms via manual
stimulation in one long session
●VIB:
○Pros:
■1) easy way to have 1st orgasm- helping her learn what feels good and
when she is nearing orgasm
■2) male and female may be able to integrate the VIB as part of
intercourse and both can get enjoyment
○Cons:
■1) some women lose their ability to fantasize, since VIB gives such easy
stim
■2) some women can get hooked on the VIB, get dependent on it and
cannot O without it
■3) VIB can cause problems in the relationship: men may feel jealous of it,
blame her for not being able to O w/ him w/o VIB
■4) excess use of VIB can lead to tactile anesthesia of the genitals (temp
loss of sensitivity)
●Pts d, e, and f: Apply to both women and men
○d) increased effective muscle stim by
■i) kegel exercises
■Exercise the pc muscle: 15 min/day in 3 periods of 5 min each
■ii) put pressure on the PC muscle during sex or masturb, w/o neglecting
the clit
■iii) increase general body muscle tension: more vigorous foreplay sex
acts
○e) fantasy
■i) increase the + turn-ons for sex
■ii) distracts her from - thoughts
Document Summary
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