SOC 152A Lecture Notes - Lecture 17: Cunnilingus, Pharyngeal Reflex, Fellatio
5/16/18
●Hite found that women who have O regularly
○Learn how to do it themselves
○Take an active role in love making
●Only about 30% of females easily reach O by sex alone
●Females have a right to ask for more than sex alone
●For Females (especially) distraction reduces sexual excitement
○Stay focused on sexual feelings as in “sensate focus”
○Think about the sexual stimulation/feelings
○Stay focused on sexual feelings and body parts
●Communication is essential
●% of women who report having good or very good sex lives
○Discuss their sexual feelings with their partners
■Always 88&
■Often 80%
■Occasionally 58%
■Never 30%
○Talk about sex lives, can be fun
○More you communicate the better your csex life can be
●erection , lubrication and O result from stimulation to the glans, shaft & frenulum =
the bio hot spots of the body
○This is a male female similarity
●3 rules of her partner
1. Find out what she likes
2. Give her what she likes
3. For as long (or short) as she likes
-too long can hurt, perfect timing
Oral sex
○In 152A approve of oral sex for yourself
■89% of females say yes
■96% of males say yes
○How often having oral sex
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