PSYC 304 Lecture Notes - Lecture 8: Silent Treatment, Parenting Styles
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No separation between real self and ideal self. Representational mappings: i"m good at soccer, good at reading. Representational systems: i"m good at soccer, but not good at math. 3-6 year old body= soccer, t-ball, scouts, dance. Society is expanding to include parents, family, teachers, and peers. I"m going to color. try new things, test power, but also needing to be more regulated and responsible. Child might become a show off, teacher"s pet. Guilt= too scared to try, inhibited, not spontaneous, inadequate, even. Virtue: purpose- the courage to envision/pursue real goals (imagination v. fantasy) without guilt. Boys more rough play, girls more likely to be quiet with 1 mate. Gender identify: the awareness of one"s gender and all it implies, may be strongly influenced by culture. Identification: find someone like mom, must be dad. Social learning: girls learn what girls do by observing and imitating same sex parent. Gender schemata: gender is a product of culture.
