COMM 1101 Lecture 11: Ch 9
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People are happier and healthier when they have good relationships. Relationships in which people see each other as unique & irreplaceable. Communication marked by high disclosure and openness. Influences on relationship development: proximity, attractiveness (matching hypothesis, similarity. Knapp"s staircase model- vangelisti model too-helped develop. Initiating (first meet someone), experimenting, intensifying, integrating, bonding (could be marriage) Differentiating, circumscribing (drawing boundaries), stagnating (not developing anymore), avoiding, terminating. Don"t have to go through all of the stages, not always true, different for each relationship. Can say stopped at a certain stage. Assume that dyads follow varied paths to relational development-interpetists- paradigm. Based on social penetration theory (the onion) Whirlwind (immediately know this is the person for them) vs. Turning point model (how did you know, what led to the change: can be positive or negative, depends on the person and the relationship as well. Theory of relationship development: attraction thepry (proximity, attractiveness, similarity, social penetration theory.