CMN 120 Lecture 6: Lecture #6 notes
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Definition: voluntary pe(cid:396)so(cid:374)al (cid:396)elatio(cid:374)ship, p(cid:396)o(cid:448)ides i(cid:374)ti(cid:373)a(cid:272)(cid:455), the 2 pa(cid:396)ties likes ea(cid:272)h othe(cid:396) a(cid:374)d seek ea(cid:272)h othe(cid:396)"s company. Friends are chosen who can maximize rewards and minimize costs. Caring: cares about our wellbeing and whatever (bad/good) that happens. Friendships have less complex feelings (cid:862) (cid:862) has less sta(cid:374)da(cid:396)ds & o(cid:271)ligatio(cid:374)s (cid:862) (cid:862) ha(cid:448)e la(cid:272)k of o(cid:448)e(cid:396)t e(cid:454)p(cid:396)essio(cid:374)s of positi(cid:448)e e(cid:373)otio(cid:374). Responsiveness friends & lovers are interested in what you say. Capitalization: having friends & lovers increase happiness, helps us feel better. Social support: provides assistance when we are dealing with difficulties: emotional support, advice support, material support: giving tangible support. Do(cid:374)"t a(cid:272)t like a (cid:272)e(cid:396)tai(cid:374) (cid:396)ule is (cid:862)(cid:449)ei(cid:396)d(cid:863: appear active, enthusiastic, dynamic, do(cid:374)"t (cid:373)ake it all a(cid:271)out (cid:455)ou, e(cid:374)(cid:272)ou(cid:396)age (cid:272)o(cid:374)(cid:448)e(cid:396)satio(cid:374) that i(cid:374)(cid:448)ol(cid:448)es (cid:271)oth pa(cid:396)ties, engage in self-disclosure, appear optimistic, appear independent. Infancy: 2 yo: become more associative, 3-5 yo: work together as friends. Starting to learn to take perspectives of others. More disclosure leading to closeness: autonomous interdependence (teens).
