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Chapter 14

FRHD 1010 Chapter Notes - Chapter 14: Physical Attractiveness, Developmental Psychology, Omen


Department
Family Relations and Human Development
Course Code
FRHD 1010
Professor
Triciavan Rhijn
Chapter
14

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Chapter 14: Early Adulthood – Social and Emotional Development
Did you know:
1. People are considered to be more attractive when they are smiling.
a. Studies seem to indicate that this is true.
2. “Opposites attract” has been proven to be a false notion.
a. People who are similar are usually more likely to be attracted to one
another.
3. Couples can remain in love after passion fades.
a. With companionate love, couples can remain ‘in love’ after passion fades.
4. Jealousy can be destructive to a relationship.
a. Some milder forms of jealousy may have the positive effect of revealing
how much one cares for one’s partner. User beware!
5. Many people remain lonely because they fear being rejected.
a. Being alone is very different from being lonely. Studies show that being
lonely is a significant and complex issue for young adults.
6. Being single has become a more common Canadian lifestyle over the past few
decades.
a. The evolution of relationships has seen acceptance of a variety of different
lifestyle choices.
7. Research indicates that having a child will not necessarily save a troubled
marriage.
a. In fact, a newborn can often add stress to a couple’s relationship.
Early adulthood – ages 20 to 40 (though some theorists believe it starts at 17 or 18 and
extends to 44 or 45)
Traditional view of development laid down by developmental psychologist Robert
Havighurst (1972), believing that each stage of development involved accomplishing
certain ‘tasks’:
1. Getting started in an occupation; 2. selecting and courting a mate; 3. learning to
live contentedly with one’s partner; 4. starting a family and becoming a parent; 5.
assuming the responsibilities of managing a home; 6. assuming civic
responsibilities; 7. finding a congenial social group
L01: Examine the issues involved in early adulthood separation
Separation-Individuation
Becoming an individual by means of integrating one’s own values and beliefs
with those of one’s parents and one’s society.
Men consider separation and individuation key goals of personality development
in early adulthood
Women differ – establish and maintenance of social relationships key importance;
need to become own persons; males more likely to show a struggle or a fight for
independence

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L02: Describe the conflict between intimacy and isolation
Intimacy versus Isolation
Erikson – young adults have issues separating from parents
Intimacy vs. isolation – the central conflict or life crisis of early adulthood, in
which a person develops an intimate relationship with a significant other or risks
heading down a path toward social isolation.
Young adults with firm sense of identity ready to ‘fuse’ identities with those of
other people through marriage or friendship; may not be able to commit ourselves
to others until we have achieved ego identity or established stable life roles.
L03: Discuss the stage of life for entry into adulthood
Seasons of Life
Daniel Levinson’s theory of adult development – people shape their lives
according to the goals they consider to be most important
ages 17-33 entry phase of adulthood for young men
“the dream”: the drive to become someone, to leave one’s mark on history, which
serves as a tentative blueprint for the young adult
women take longer to leave home – social constraints from families and society
Levinson labelled 28-33 (30 – transition; late 20s early 30s commonly
characterized by reassessment; later 30s characterized by settling down)
L04: Examine the emotional forces of attraction and love
Attraction:
Investigators define feelings of attraction as psychological forces that draw people
together; physical appearance key factor; though we like to say that sensitivity,
warmth and intelligence
Is beauty in the eye of the beholder? Women prefer men 6 inches taller, men
prefer omen 4.5 inches shorter; most men attracted to ample bustlines; women at
fertile phase of menstrual cycle found men with more masculine ‘deeper’ voices
to be more attractive
Nonphysical traits affect perceptions of physical beauty – familiarity, liking,
respect, sharing values and goals
Sex Differences and Perceptions of Attractiveness: gender-role expectations –
women more attracted to socially dominant man; men attracted to socially
dominant women
Are Preferences Concerning Attractiveness Inborn? Reproductive advantages
The Attraction-similarity hypothesis: Do ‘opposites attract’ or ‘do birds of a
feather flock together’? – the view that people tend to develop romantic
relationships with people who are similar to themselves in physical attractiveness
and other traits.
Reciprocity: If you like me, you must have excellent judgment – reciprocity is a
potent determinant of attraction
Love:
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