PSYCH218 Lecture Notes - Lecture 11: Family Therapy, Irreversible Process, Developmental Disability
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The fact of death changes how you relate to the deceased. That death is going to shake up the family. Deaths of individuals are going to effect the family system in different ways. When we talk about system, a death in the system disorientates the balance. No person has the same role in the system, so no person is the same. Twins growing up completely different form each other and people not understanding how that happened. Legitimized grief - grief (cid:455)ou"re supposed to e(cid:454)press, thi(cid:374)gs (cid:455)ou"re supposed to feel. (cid:862) hould orro(cid:449)(cid:863) (cid:862)legiti(cid:373)ized grief(cid:863: family as family. Some family member has died, far off relation. Going to do all the appropriate death related thi(cid:374)gs. But the(cid:455)"re fa(cid:373)il(cid:455), so (cid:449)e"re goi(cid:374)g to sho(cid:449) up a(cid:374)d go through the (cid:373)otio(cid:374)s. Important that we give this person a big send off so we need as many people as possible. Doa(cid:271)le if it"s so(cid:373)eo(cid:374)e (cid:455)ou do(cid:374)"t reall(cid:455) k(cid:374)o(cid:449): secret-keepers.