HDFS 2000 Lecture Notes - Lecture 19: Strip Poker, Vaginismus
6 Nov 2018
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Hollywood and sex : 1st aroused before content, always non-marital, erotic ow is continuous, always orgasmic (multiple, totally intimidating, once a month is better than 95% of couples. Concept of gears of connection : scale of 0-10. 10: orgasmic: most couples: 2 gears. Affectionate and sexual gear imagine shifting from 1st to 5th gear: power struggle: intercourse or nothing, sex is not power struggle. 1st gear of connection : affectionate touch: Gets you connected with partner: 1 rpm normally. 2nd gear of connection : sensual touch: receptive to touch. Hugging, kissing: 1 to 3 rpm"s. Best gear to go to after 2nd gear is 1st. 3rd gear of connection : playful touch: intermixing of congenital touching and genital pleasuring, playful. Dancing (erotic or romantic: moving towards 5 or 6 rpm"s. 4th gear of connection : erotic touch: Manual, oral, rubbing, vibrator touch oriented to subjective and objective arousal. Couples younger than 45 or 50: more trouble with erotic touch.
