CFD 1220 Study Guide - Spring 2018, Comprehensive Midterm Notes - Obesity, Uterus, Tobacco Smoking
CFD 1220
MIDTERM EXAM
STUDY GUIDE
Fall 2018
Chapter 4:
Child Socialization Strategies and Techniques
Discipline vs. Guidance
• The view of discipline as punishment in the U. S. Reflects our history of punitive
childrearing
o The punitive child socialization approach is not universal and not growth
producing
• Discipline means: to learn, teach, guide
• Thinking of child socialization as guidance helps us consider other strategies that are
o More growth producing
o Less harmful to children than punishment
Guidance as Prevention of Problems
• There are a number of parenting strategies that are effective for preventing children’s
misbehavior, including:
o A method for establishing an atmosphere of psychological safety for children
o The technique of encouragement
o An approach called four pluses and a wish
o A technique termed the four goals of misbehavior
o A method for improving parent–child communication skills which includes
problem ownership, active listening, and I-messages
Creating an Atmosphere of Psychological Safety
• Dorothy Briggs recommended that parents create an atmosphere of psychological safety
for their children
o The chief goal of parenting is to build a strong sense of self-worth in children
• Briggs outlined three levels of children’s self-esteem, each of which reflects their
ongoing interactions with their parents:
o Those with high self-esteem have experienced unconditional love from their
parents
o Children with low self-esteem have had interactions with parents that have led
to questions regarding their lovability
o Children with mid-level self-esteem have parents who have led them to think
believe that their lovability derives from pleasing others
Value of Promoting Children’s Self-Esteem
• High self-esteem helps children to view the rest of their lives from a more optimistic
perspective
• Children with supportive families develop both higher self-esteem and more positive
social relationships
• Higher self-esteem mediates a variety of negative outcomes for children
• Parental evaluations of their children’s behaviors affect the self-esteem of children much
more than does the judgment of others
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Guidance as Encouragement of Children
• Parental encouragement helps children to believe in themselves and their abilities
o Also, motivates them to try new things
• Parents encourage their children when they
o Avoid placing value judgments on them
o Focus on their feelings
o Concentrate on process rather than outcome
o Separate children’s worth from their accomplishments or their mistakes
Attitudes and Behaviors That Encourage Children
• Attitudes and behaviors of parents that encourage children include:
o Showing appreciation of each of child’s uniqueness
o Showing confidence in their children
o Building on their children’s strengths
o Avoiding sending mixed messages to their children
o Using humor in their parent–child interactions
Parental Attitudes and Behaviors That Discourage Children
• Negative expectations of their children
• Unreasonably high demands of their children
• Showing child favoritism which leads to competition between or among their children
• Being overly ambitious in the demands they place on children
• The double standard:
o Requiring standards of behavior from children while modeling other standards
Four Pluses and a Wish: A Strategy for Motivating Children’s Compliance
• Plus 1—Smile
o The parent approaches the child with a smiling face
• Plus 2—Relaxed Body Language and Friendly Voice
o Parents should be certain that their voice tone, facial expression, and body
language convey friendliness toward the child
• Plus 3—Say the Child’s Name
o For the child, hearing the parent say his or her name in a friendly voice is
affirming
• Plus 4—Pay a Compliment to the Child
o Perhaps comment on what the child is doing
• The Wish
o Only after providing four pluses for the child, does the parent make the request
(The Wish)
The Concept of Belongingness and Children’s Goals of Misbehavior
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Document Summary
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