PSYC 391 Lecture Notes - Lecture 8: Soyou
2 Jan 2015
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Why r men better than women: women tell more about what they dislike but they don"t tell more about what they like, men think they should work harder cus that"s their job, women more self focused, what women think their partner want is wrong, maybe it"s not men knows women but the scripts for men are not accurate but script for women is right. Choose an appropriate setting: time and privacy, not: during/before/after sexual activity, not: during conflict, not: during a movie, hockey game, etc, don"t make the talk too big a deal. Impett & peplau (2002: main points, in establish relationships, compliance might be associated with better outcome, approach motives related to better outcome, positive emotion, avoidance motive: not associated with positive outcome, men compliant with unwanted sex, they initiate sex they don"t want to have, rates of compliance by women are higher than by men.
