PSY 3122 Lecture Notes - Lecture 8: Premature Ejaculation, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Parasympathetic Nervous System
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How we are socialized to understand how sex ought to happen. What is seen as normal in a society. Learned from friends, stories, books, television, movies, porn. Model of sexual experience centred on the big o - orgasm is the goal. The term foreplay, makes it seem as though only steps 4 and 5 are real sex . Foreplay is a warmup - sex will not happen without this warmup. Erection is supposed to appear around step 2. No determined step for vaginal lubrication - not as important: should be around step 2, but if lubrication doesn"t happen, it"s okay because there"s still arti cial lubricant . Lets people know what to expect, how to prepare for it. What do you want to do? when both people know the script. This model is very satisfying for some couples - if it"s not broken don"t x it.
