COMM 110 Lecture Notes - Lecture 11: Platonic Love, Storge, Takers
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Ludis: game playing (these are the people that view love more strategically, love the hunting, push and pull) Manie: pendulum love (there is a high and a low, like a rollercoaster) Pragma: practical love (loving with your brain rather and loving with your heart) Storge: platonic love (the type of love that you have for your bff, friendship type of love) The people that want to make others happy. Takers- the people that like things done for them, they don"t feel guilty or bad about that. Matchers- think as a scorekeeper, i"ll do something for you if you do something for me . Givers, because they feel good about giving, but they get take advantage of. Givers, because they like giving, they find reward in giving of they don"t get take advantage of. The most successful combination of relationships : givers and givers. A way in which you express love or feel love when other people expressing for you.