ENGB76H3 Lecture Notes - Lecture 3: Physical Intimacy, Adverse Effect, Tangled
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For money: doesn"t matter the kiss. Intimacy commitment and trust holy trinity of hollywood romance: assumes whatever makes you true makes it more valuable, physical intimacy signing the marriage. Play by the roles and polygamy is not allowed. Ideologies of love and gender norms: different visual marker/code. Don"t have to starve everything in me and pretend like i don"t have actual desires. Deferring while knowing what sex is like. Sex is sex but not meaningful scary and vulnerable. When they try to have a conversationexplodes cant tolerate it. Citizen kane (marriage montage: marrying for class compatibility, negotiation inside the marriage. Our voices and thoughts shaped/ trained by the voices around us. Privileged golden cage: can"t articulate why he feels trapped, unthought-of but known. All idea and though need to be found the right words. Who is on top vs. the bottom. Want something different but doesn"t know what that is/ his anxiety.
